Understanding Communication Styles: Strengthening Your Relationships

“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” - Colossians 4:6 (NIV)

In our latest episode of the RICH Relationships Refuge podcast, we explored four communication styles: Thinker, Director, Feeler, and Visionary. Understanding your style and that of your partner can enhance empathy, reduce misunderstandings, and strengthen your connection.

The Four Communication Styles

• Thinker: Logical and detail-oriented; needs to embrace spontaneity.

• Director: Goal-driven and decisive; should practice listening and patience.

• Feeler: Empathetic and relational; must address conflict head-on.

• Visionary: Creative and inspiring; benefits from focusing on details and follow-through.

Why It Matters

Recognizing communication styles helps you:

• Build awareness of your habits.

• Foster empathy for your partner’s perspective.

• Target areas for personal and relational growth.

A Story from Gil & Renée

Early in our marriage, Gil’s Director approach clashed with Renée’s Feeler tendencies. Through prayer and understanding, we learned to honor each other’s differences, creating balance and harmony in our decisions.

Take Action

Identify your style, embrace growth, and enhance your relationships today! Tune into the RICH Relationships Refuge podcast for practical tips and stories. Don’t forget to download the Marriage Mentors RICH RR App on the Apple or Google App Store to deepen your journey!